The government has published new guidance on weddings in England, allowing ceremonies of up to 30 people but advising against receptions.
From 4 July, wedding and civil partnerships can go ahead but with only 30 people including the couple, staff such as a photographer and witnesses.
People should socially distance, singing should not take place and hands must be washed before exchanging rings.
Receptions should be small, with only two households able to meet indoors.
Since lockdown began on 23 March, weddings in England have been banned under almost all circumstances.
Small weddings are currently allowed in the other nations of the UK, which set their own lockdown rules.
In Northern Ireland, weddings of up to 10 people are allowed outdoors. In Wales, ceremonies can also take place, but social distancing must be observed, while outdoor marriages and civil partnerships can take place in Scotland.
New rules for England
Under the new guidance for England released on Monday, small wedding and civil partnership ceremonies are allowed to go ahead only when they can be done safely and follow social distancing guidelines.
The advice says:
- Ceremonies should be kept “as short as reasonably possible” and limited as much as possible to just the parts that are legally binding
- No more than 30 people should attend
- Everyone should follow the 2m rule if possible, or 1m with extra safety measures
- No food and drink should be consumed as part of the event
- Hands should be washed before and after the exchanging of rings, and the rings should be handled by as few people as possible
- Singing, shouting or playing music at a volume that means people have to raise their voice should all be avoided. Instead of singing, recordings are suggested
- Speaking during the ceremony – for example saying the responses to the vows – should not be in a raised voice
- Playing instruments that are blown into should be avoided
- When singing or chanting is required, only one person is allowed to and the couple or venue should consider installing a clear screen
- Venues frequently used for weddings should mark the floor with tape or paint to help people maintain social distance.
The government advice also suggests changing traditional wedding layouts to avoid face-to-face seating, improving ventilation or using face masks.
The requirement to follow the 2m rule – or 1m with extra precautions – will likely rule out the tradition of a father walking his daughter down the aisle, unless they live in the same household.
The maximum number of 30 people includes everybody at the ceremony – including the couple, witnesses, officiants, guests and suppliers such as photographers and caterers.
The guidance also says receptions that “typically follow or accompany marriages or civil partnerships are strongly advised not to take place at this time”.
It says small celebrations should only take place if they follow social distancing guidelines, such as groups of up to two households indoors, or up to six people from different households outdoors.
The reason people are urged not to sing or speak loudly is based on scientific advice which suggests doing so produces more respiratory droplets which enter the air and can be inhaled by others.
‘We can’t postpone as I’m due to be deployed’
One man, who wanted to remain anonymous, said he and his fiancee are due to get married at the end of July.
They say they still want to get married then because the groom is in the military and is due to be deployed in September and will be out of the country for much of next year.
“I am due to join a ship in September so I won’t be able to get married next year,” he said.
“With the new rules, they have made it impossible to have the wedding as planned.
“It’s a joke – the venue we have is a farmhouse and we would have been in the courtyard. Not having food at a wedding reception is mad.
“We are not allowed a reception even though we could all up sticks and visit Wetherspoons. We can protest with hundreds of other people, we can gather to celebrate a football game with strangers, yet we cannot have an outdoor reception of our 25 guests. It goes beyond illogical.”
The government says venues that do not follow the guidance could face action from the Health and Safety Executive or the local authority.
Failing to put in place sufficient measures could constitute a breach of existing health and safety legislation and venues could face enforcement notices, the guidance adds.
The 2020 spring and summer wedding season in the UK has been hit hard by the pandemic, with many couples forced to postpone their weddings.
Some couples have held substitute celebrations instead, with one couple in Northamptonshire holding a street party and two hospital workers staging a mock wedding while wearing personal protective gear.
While the majority of wedding companies and venues have been flexible about postponing, some brides and grooms said they had been locked in a battle to get their money back.
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